Have you ever wondered where your definition of success has come from? Whether it was through the messaging from your parents or upbringing? society? culture?
Have you ever questioned why the illusive chase for success results in never really achieving it fully the way you think you should?
What have you been taught success really means? The education, the good job, the nice home, the perfect family, the perfect social circle, the material possessions…. the ‘things’ that seemingly demonstrate you are successful?
Have you ever noticed that when you collect one of these ‘things’ it’s not long before you feel empty again and looking for more?
We’re taught in our culture that “if we get that promotion, that better job, that perfect mate, that ideal body, that next ‘thing’, THEN we’ll be successful and happy.”
What if true success isn’t ‘out there’ but instead it’s inside you? Would you know how to find it then?
What if success wasn’t a ‘thing’ but instead it was a ‘feeling’. What would be the feeling?
What if success wasn’t illusive, but instead something you could experience in your bones?
What if it was more sustainable than you think?
I’m here to tell you that it’s entirely POSSIBLE for you to break free from your limiting beliefs about success, which keep you going around and around in this perpetual chase.
I KNOW that being bound to a life or work you don’t want isn’t the only option.
I came to know this when I started to deconstruct my ideas about what success really means. I’d become so programmed to believe that it meant having all the neat and tidy ‘things’.
And the program ran so quietly in my subconscious that I didn’t even notice.
I made it my life’s mission to uncover and shift the negative programming, and it freed me to install new more empowering ways of thinking, choosing and living.
I discovered that to truly deconstruct them meant to become aware of them FIRST.
If you know you’re meant for MORE yet you can’t seem to grasp what that MORE is, or how you would even start, here’s a place to start.
Here are 3 questions to get you started in deconstructing YOUR erroneous beliefs about what success means to you:
1. What did your family and community teach you about what Success means?
2. What did your family and community teach you about what failure means?
3. What would true success FEEL like to you if there was nothing you needed to do or have to prove it?
Once you answer these for yourself it will open up a whole new doorway from which to consider your life and work situation as it is today.
YES it’s daunting to consider new possibilities especially when you’ve gotten so comfortable in your status quo.
YES it’s requires courage to act on any new possibility once you uncover it.
YES it’s confusing to realize that the MORE you are meant for isn’t yet clear…and the question of where to even START boggles your mind.
YES it’s not easy to really even know where to start getting clear on the “how”.
That’s why I do what I do.
Because I’ve been there and I know that YOU have an untapped desire for creating a life you love and to express that through your work.
Here’s exactly where to start!
Click HERE to book a no strings attached conversation with me and we’ll chat about what it would look like for you to TRULY experience success. From the Inside Out.